God is for you. He loves you. He has your back. Seek Him about everything in your life. He will lead you, guide you, and order your steps.
Career
Stay in His presence. Abide in Him, because He will order your steps, lead you, and guide you. He has placed a unique calling on your life. Be faithful to do the things God is telling you to do now. If you're in a preparation stage, remember that delaying is disobedience, and there are people who need your help. The longer you delay the longer they go without getting the help they need. Matthew 25:21 tells us that if we're faithful over a few things, God will make you ruler over many things. Where you're at now is not insignificant. It's teaching you things that you need for the future. When I did admin work, I didn't see how that had any purpose, but now, running my own business, I need all of those skills that I learned. You may not see it yet, but nothing is wasted when you're walking with God. If He has you somewhere right now, it's for a reason. Continue to seek Him and walk with Him, abiding, so that when the time comes for you to make a move you're ready. God is your boss no matter where you work, so be faithful because He's watching how you handle where He has you.
Relationships
God doesn't want you to be with a man that doesn't treat you right. He's for you. Think about any good dad. If a man wanted to be with his daughter but didn't treat her right, didn't love her, choose her, prioritize her, cut off other women for her, he would not want his daughter to be with that man. God tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church. If that man doesn't love you correctly now, why would you sign up to be treated that way for the rest of your life? He's not going to suddenly treat you like a princess when you say, "I do". If you don't like the way he's treating you now, don't commit to being treated that way for the rest of your life. God loves you and wants you to be loved. He never wants His daughters to be hurt or treated badly.
You may have made mistakes and dated the wrong men, but your Father loves you and is always saying to you, "Daughter, there's always a place for you in my home and in my arms. Come back home." He's not mad at you. He's not disappointed in you. He's waiting with loving open arms for you. It's not His will for you to ever be treated badly. He doesn't want you be be afraid to end that relationship. He is your provider, your protector, and your Husband. No man can ever love you the way He does. He's not looking at you saying, "I told you so." Don't ever allow shame to keep you from Your loving Heavenly Father. Trust Him to bring you the right man when the time is right. It's lonelier to be miserable in a relationship than it is to do life with just you and Jesus. Jesus gives you peace and says you're beautiful. He doesn't lie to you, play you, cheat on you, hit you, put you down, insult you, etc. Jesus loves you and builds you up. He chooses you. He fights for you. He says, "Daughter, I choose you. I want you. I love you. I will always be here for you, even when you make mistakes and I will help you. You are precious to me. You are important to me. I love when you spend time with me. I delight in you. You are my beautiful girl."
Vulnerability
The one person you can tell anything and everything to is God. He is a safe place. Psalms tells us to pour out our heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.
1 Peter 5:7 says, "casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you".
There's nothing too big or too difficult, and there's nothing too small or insignificant. Tell Him everything. He wants to be your best friend. You don't need to pray in a way that sounds perfect or eloquent, you just talk to Him authentically. He's listening, He sees you, and He answers. Trust that He will answer you, because He will. He is faithful. Earthly fathers may let you down, but God will never let you down. Parents may forget you, abandon you, neglect you, but God never will.
Isaiah 49:15 says, Can a woman forget her nursing child, And not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, Yet I will not forget you.
Hebrews 13:5 says, “...I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
God's got your back, beautiful daughter!
